Archive for April, 2012


Very Lucky Girl

I am a very lucky girl.  And I’m not saying that because my family is wonderful or because I have the most amazing friends or because I have been incredibly blessed with so many experiences.  I’m saying this because I am one of the few folks who gets to call herself an Aggie AND a Hokie.

As graduation grows closer and the job search is in full-swing, I’m beginning to reflect on my incredible college experiences.  In the past week I was able to participate in two extremely unique experiences: The Day of Remembrance (4.16) and Aggie Muster (4.21)

On April 16, 2007, Virginia Tech was devastated with the loss of 32 Hokies in an uncontrollable act of violence.  On the fifth anniversary of this event, Virginia Tech hosted a community picnic on the drill field and a candlelight vigil in the evening.  Rachel and I journeyed to the drill field for the picnic to grab some pizza and enjoy the sunshine on one of the prettiest days in Blacksburg history.

And look who we found:

Why do I always get excited when I see the Hokie Bird?

Later that evening I attended the candlelight vigil.  The President of VT and the Governor spoke to the thousands gathered in front of the 4.16 memorial–But all of their words paled in comparison to the short, colorful descriptions of each victim that rang out over the crowd.  At the conclusion of the 32 descriptions, a choir began to sing, “Fields of Gold,” and a ripple of candlelight spread over the crowd.

And that’s when it hit me.  The warmth of the candles, the sun setting behind Burruss Hall, the playing of Silver Taps by a bugler, and the cry of “Let’s Go…Hokies.”  I literally had shivers running up my spine.  I had never been more proud to be a Hokie than while holding a lit, white candle with the hand wearing my Aggie Ring.  It was an experience I will neVer forgeT.

Later that week was one of my favorite Aggie traditions, Muster.  Muster is held on April 21st each year.  It is a time when Aggies who are within 100 miles of each other are asked to come together to reminisce on Aggie memories and remember those Aggies who have passed away in the past year. The ceremony includes the War Hymm, poems, and lighting a candle for each Aggie no longer with us.  As their name is called for the last time, comrades answer “Here.”

This year, I was the Muster chair for the Virginia Blue Ridge A&M Club.  While our Muster was tiny compared to the thousands who gather in College Station, TX, it was still moving and meaningful.  How can your heart not stop when you hear the War Hymm?  And chatting with the Ol’ Ags is such a blast.  They have the BEST stories.

So, like I said, I am one lucky girl who is incredibly proud of her Aggie and Hokie heritage. Gig ‘em…and Gobble Gobble :)

I gave up my car radio for Lent in an effort to use the silence to reflect on my day and spend some much needed time with God.  However, I didn’t factor in my travel time to Athens, Georgia for Easter…which happens to be a 6 hour drive. (Bailee and I ran in a Color Run in Atlanta…see below)

But I did it…I didn’t listen to the radio for 6 hours.  It gave me some incredible time to reflect.  And in the midst of my silent travel I thought a lot about relationships and how I communicate with others.

Have you ever been hanging out with someone and they are constantly tapping away at their phone?  Or it rings and they immediately grab it to answer a text message?  Have you ever known someone who leaves their cell phone at home and they are thrown off all day? Have you ever been in a meeting or even at dinner with a person and they leave their phone on the table because they need to know IMMEDIATELY if they have a text message?

I am totally guilty of all of the above. The need for me to have my iPhone with me at all times was slowly starting to annoy me.

What happened to phone calls?  To letters in the mail?  To having face-to-face interactions without checking for text messages mid-conversation?  While I am a huge fan of social media and text messages, I am a bigger fan of traditional communication.

SO, Saturday in Athens I decided to  deactivate Facebook, stop using Twitter, and no longer use text messages for a week.  I let my family and close friends know about my experiment so they wouldn’t think I was just being rude (I accidentally forgot to tell one good friend…he was seriously starting to believe I was kidnapped..whoops).

Through this entire experiment I’ve discovered a few things:

  • Not depending on a cell phone feels incredible.  I used to check it constantly to see if there was a new text, new tweet. etc.  This past week I only needed it if I heard it ring.
  • Since moving away from my homeland, I’ve depended a lot on texts and e-mail messages.  My experiment forced me to call and have a conversation with a person even if I just needed a quick response.  It was fantastic to catch up with someone I don’t talk to on a regular basis.  And, in return, they seemed genuinely surprised/happy to have a conversation.
  • Me not using my phone made it painfully more aware of others who cannot stop using theirs.  I need to seriously study the addiction of cell phones.

I have reactivated Facebook and Twitter, and started texting again.  However, I’ve promised myself not to use my cell phone when I am interacting with a person.  And I’ve also promised myself to call my favorite people at least once a week to check in and hear their voices that I miss so much.

Social media has done amazing things for our generation, but reverting back to the olden days of conversations and hand written notes every once in a while isn’t so bad.

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